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At this level, the fog clears. Emotions no longer rule the mind, and a deeper wisdom emerges — one that sees life with sharp clarity and thoughtful compassion. Here, understanding becomes a form of love, and reason is no longer cold logic, but a bridge to truth, discernment, and peace.
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“It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”
— Aristotle
You are in a great starting place, now lets raise your perspective……
This state feels like a still lake beneath a clear sky. Reason is not cold — it’s discerning. Clarity brings peace — not because it answers everything, but because it simplifies the noise. Wisdom arises when insight is filtered through lived experience and deeper presence. Understanding holds it all — the contradictions, the patterns, the parts. It doesn’t rush to judgment. It sits calmly with complexity. This frequency feels clear-eyed, steady, and quietly radiant. A meeting point of mind and soul.
Psychological Insight:
At this level, the psyche is functioning with integration: logic and intuition, data and discernment, thought and feeling. Reason here is not rigid — it is flexible and adaptive. Cognitive distortions diminish. Mental clarity becomes possible when the nervous system is no longer overwhelmed, and when emotional charge has settled. Wisdom is meta-cognitive — it arises from the ability to observe thought without becoming it. Understanding signals maturity of perception: the capacity to hold nuance, compassion, and cause-and-effect all at once.
“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right doing, there is a field. I’ll meet you there.”
— Rumi
SELF-ENQUIRY FROM ACCEPTANCE, TRUST, HARMONIZATION, FLOW
Mini-Process: Questions + Rant Builder
Self-Enquiry Questions:
These questions act like emotional breadcrumbs — they can gently accept how you are feeling now while guiding you toward a slightly higher perspective.
What do I know beneath the noise — not just believe?
Is there a deeper pattern here I might be ready to see?
What assumptions am I making that I could question with love?
What if clarity isn’t about having all the answers, but about knowing what matters most?
What would it feel like to trust my own wisdom right now?
Self-Enquiry Rant:
Talk to yourself as if you are your best friend, someone who cares. These sentences can be read silently to yourself. They can help you start to form your own sentences, your own self talk. Keep this momentum going, follow on from the ideas and start to create your own self rant talk, let the ideas flow, and if they don’t come, just keep reading these.
“I don’t need to react — I can reflect.”
“I can think clearly without overthinking. I can see patterns without judgment.”
“My wisdom is not just knowledge — it is lived, felt, and distilled through presence.”
“I don’t need to rush to conclusions or fix everything.”
“I can pause. I can inquire. I can choose clarity over confusion.”
“I don’t have to be right to be wise. I just have to listen — deeply.”
“My mind is not my enemy; it is a beautiful, powerful tool when I use it with compassion.”
“I trust my inner guidance. I trust my clarity. I trust my understanding.”
Keep going with your own inner voice. Keep reasoning your way into a space with more light. Keep speaking—let the sentences come to you freely. You are what you’ve been looking for. Let your soul be your guide and your light. You are empowering yourself now to be your own guide, your own strength, your own light. You’re uncovering the most valuable thing you could ever discover: your true self. So work with this. This is the greatest gift you can give yourself: finding your way through to an even more expansive open feeling space. Believe in your inner light and expand your inner energy. Keep self-ranting, keep self-enquiring, keep moving forward with courage and determination.
“We do not see things as they are, we see them as we are.”
— Anaïs Nin
Let me Walk with you on your Journey.
I’ve been through this too, and I’d be honored to simply walk alongside you as a friend on your journey — toward higher perspective, inner strength, and deeper alignment with your true self. If you feel called, reach out. Let’s talk it through together, reflect, and gently explore your thoughts and ideas as they unfold.
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