One in a Million

Soulful Support for Real Life Struggles

These articles are part of the One in a Million platform — a space for real, soul-to-soul connection. They’re here to support the deeper conversations I have with people one-on-one. Through mentorship, friendship, and real-time companionship, I offer a place to talk, reflect, and walk beside you on your journey. Each article is meant to spark reflection, open dialogue, and gently support you as part of the larger experience at oneinamillion.me.

Joy, Serenity, and Completion

This is the quiet joy that asks for nothing. It isn’t excitement or adrenaline — it’s the deep, sustained peace that comes from living in harmony with yourself and your path. Joy arises as a byproduct of presence. Serenity is the absence of internal conflict. Completion is not the end — it is the whole-hearted recognition that you are already enough..

Reach out if you want to experience this State.

Let me support you on your journey.

This is a great place to be. You can still move forward but your already in a great starting place. Reach out to me so I can be a support for you as you move forward on your journey as a soul feeling better each day and changing your experience.

“Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.”


— Henri Nouwen

You are in a great starting place, now lets raise your perspective……

Joy here is not excitement — it is peace that sparkles. It’s the soul smiling quietly. Serenity is not passive — it is deeply stable, like a calm sea holding a whole sky. Completion is not about perfection — it’s the sense that this is enough. In this state, there’s no reaching. There’s no fixing. There’s only presence, gratitude, and gentle celebration. It feels timeless. Light. Held. It is the frequency of contentment not based on outcome, but on being. It is being home.
Psychological Insight:

Joy and serenity activate the parasympathetic nervous system — supporting deep healing, hormonal balance, and cellular repair. These states reduce the brain’s default mode activity (linked to rumination) and increase coherence between heart and brain rhythms. Completion arises neurologically when the nervous system experiences closure or fulfillment — even in small symbolic ways. These frequencies support spiritual integration: the final weaving together of thought, emotion, body, and awareness into one whole field of consciousness.

“True joy is not found in the absence of sorrow, but in the presence of purpose.”


— Katie Pickard

SELF-ENQUIRY FOR JOY SERENITY & COMPLETION

Mini-Process: Questions + Rant Builder

Self-Enquiry Questions:

These questions act like emotional breadcrumbs — they can gently accept how you are feeling now while guiding you toward a slightly higher perspective.
  1. What in me already feels whole, even if nothing else changes?
  2. What would it mean to be complete with this moment, exactly as it is?
  3. Is there a joy in simplicity that I’ve been overlooking?
  4. Can I allow this breath to be enough — no striving, no needing, just being?
  5. What if peace isn’t something I find, but something I remember?

Self-Enquiry Rant:

Talk to yourself as if you are your best friend, someone who cares. These sentences can be read silently to yourself. They can help you start to form your own sentences, your own self talk. Keep this momentum going, follow on from the ideas and start to create your own self rant talk, let the ideas flow, and if they don’t come, just keep reading these.

“I don’t have to chase anything. I don’t have to prove anything.”

I can just be. This moment is enough.”

I am enough. I’ve come far — and it’s okay to rest.”

There is joy here, not because everything is perfect, but because I am present.”

“There is serenity here, not because the world is silent, but because I am.”

“Completion doesn’t mean the end — it means the return.”

 “I return to myself. I return to this breath. I return to this sacred now. And that is everything.”

Keep going with your own inner voice. Keep reasoning your way into a space with more light. Keep speaking—let the sentences come to you freely. You are what you’ve been looking for. Let your soul be your guide and your light. You are empowering yourself now to be your own guide, your own strength, your own light. You’re uncovering the most valuable thing you could ever discover: your true self. So work with this. This is the greatest gift you can give yourself: finding your way through to an even more expansive open feeling space. Believe in your inner light and expand your inner energy. Keep self-ranting, keep self-enquiring, keep moving forward with courage and determination.

“When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.”


— Rumi

Let me Walk with you on your Journey.

I’ve been through this too, and I’d be honored to simply walk alongside you as a friend on your journey — toward higher perspective, inner strength, and deeper alignment with your true self. If you feel called, reach out. Let’s talk it through together, reflect, and gently explore your thoughts and ideas as they unfold.

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